Parenting is, by far, my favorite life simulation...💯

When I see myself in overwhelm, with a side of frustration, and a dash of “wtf”, I am standing WAY too close to the picture unfolding in front of me...

Even knowing this to my core, I am still in AWE every time I back up and see what’s happening in the totality of my life.

I used to think so too. 👈🏼

I have invested close to 100k on trainings, courses, coaching, life transforming experiences, and have taken myself to the bottom of my darkest limitations and back.

EVERY PENNY... taught me how to break the mold, renew my confidence, reveal to me possibly, dismantle what didn’t work, build habits and patterns that made it EASY to walk IN purpose and CHOOSE the life I want. 💯

I remember a long time ago- not getting support to put myself through this work...

Is to interrupt the bullshit stories, the negative self-talk, the sabotaging patterns, and ineffective subconscious programs that have been lying to you about how magnificent, worthy, and valuable YOU ARE in this world.

The vision I see and ALWAYS see for my clients: 𝑭𝑹𝑬𝑬𝑫𝑶𝑴

Freedom from heaviness

Freedom from trauma

Freedom from self-oppression

Freedom from emotional suppression

Freedom from detrimental perspectives

Freedom from the illusion of “stuck-ness”

Whatever belief HAS you, it’s time to UN-do.

Whatever self talk GREATEST HITS record that has been playing in your mind of self doubt, not enough-ness, scarcity, comparison, guilt, wrongness, falsity, burden, or insert “disempowering bullshit” here...

CONFRONT IT!

“YOU CAN’T HAVE ME, BRUH!”

𝑮𝒐𝒅 𝒊𝒔 𝒂𝒊𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒃𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒌𝒊𝒏𝒈... 𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒉𝒆𝒍𝒑𝒊𝒏𝒈?

To take a break when work becomes more important than your sanity.

To do nothing on a Thursday afternoon.

To let the house fall apart.

To let the kids make the mess.

𝑰𝒕𝒔 𝒔𝒐 𝒆𝒂𝒔𝒚 𝒕𝒐 𝒈𝒆𝒕 𝒊𝒎𝒑𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒆𝒏𝒕 𝒘𝒉𝒆𝒏 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒆 𝒊𝒔 𝒂 𝑭𝑰𝑹𝑬 𝑰𝑵 𝒀𝑶𝑼𝑹 𝑩𝑬𝑳𝑳𝒀...

Something has been growing and pushing inside me for months now....and I’m sooo ready to give birth to it and share it with you already!!

TRUTH be told...it’s not quite happening yet. Something doesn’t feel right and I find myself pushing against something that’s not ready or willing...

I am not my story... I have one... and I have changed it over and over again.

I could write you a book on how many times I have rewritten my narrative...

Man oh man....

I cannot tell you the amount of ways I have attempted to be what others needed me to be, or contort, mold, and twist myself into what I thought I HAD to be.....

We all are.

So much about what has us continue to NOT allow ourselves to become the fullest expression of what God intended over our lives is this...

We believed them.

Today’s reveal of Truth:

𝑰 𝒘𝒂𝒔 𝒂 𝒃𝒊𝒈 𝒇𝒂𝒕 𝒍𝒊𝒂𝒓...

I lied about my poor health

I lied about the destructive quality of my habits

I lied about the behaviors that were toxic in my relationships

I lied about “being ok” when I wasn’t

Each one a master of her own domain.

You don’t have to walk it alone...

You don't have to know all the answers when you begin the journey. Instead of being after the answer, start with the question.

How many of you have asked this at least once a week, or once a day?

Seriously, y’all should be saying “yes” to this or you is ly-ing to yo-self. Lol

How many times have you doubted...

your instincts

your gut

your intuition

your first answer

your “inner-knowing”

Anyone who knows me knows that I’m a HUGE believer in little wins. That’s why one of my core philosophies is to celebrate absolutely everything- I’m not joking- There is no win too small to deserve your attention and celebration.

𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝒎𝒆𝒔𝒔𝒂𝒈𝒆 𝒊𝒏𝒔𝒊𝒅𝒆 𝒐𝒇 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒘𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒔𝒍𝒐𝒘𝒍𝒚 𝒃𝒖𝒓𝒏 𝒚𝒐𝒖, 𝒃𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒌 𝒚𝒐𝒖, 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒊𝒏𝒄𝒆𝒑𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒖𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒍 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒔𝒂𝒚 "𝒚𝒆𝒔"

What you are being called forth to create in your life will sit inside of you- growing- sometimes like fire and sometimes like a tumor- until you take ACTION.

The over analysis and illusion of perfection is a crafty voice.

𝑭𝒆𝒂𝒓 𝒊𝒔 𝒂 𝒍𝒊𝒂𝒓...

You don’t owe anyone shit... 💯

This includes not having to explain to others you do what you do, want what you want, or choose what you choose.

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Can it be OK that you… just… do?